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Sunday, 17 March 2013

Time to take control of Mount TBR (again)


Yeah, so, we're still hoping to move house sometime in the next century, right?  And I was doing pretty well at reading my own books and not acquiring too many for a while last year.  Then I fell off the wagon before Christmas, and attempted to get back on it sometime in January.  I fell off it AGAIN a few weeks ago, and now I'm clambering determinedly back ON, gluing my butt to the seat and strapping myself in firmly.  Because falling off all the time sucks.

You might have noticed that the 'Mount TBR' page on the blog disappeared a week or two ago, because I just couldn't keep up with the updates!  Right now I'm in the middle of making a Book Jar - I'll post about it properly when I'm done - which means sitting in the flat literally taking down every single book from my shelves, a stack at a time, sorting through them, deciding what can go, and adding the rest to The Jar.  So far I've gone through my general fiction, classics and crime, and I've already topped 300 unread books.  I still have sci-fi/fantasy, YA, and all my non-fiction to go through - about twice as many books again.

To put it bluntly, it's ridiculous.  There are so many wonderful books on my shelves, and yet I seem to be incapable of not buying more any time I get the opportunity.  Joking and book lurve aside, I think even the most die-hard reader eventually reaches a point where they have to hold up their hands and say "Okay, maybe it's time to reel it in a bit."  At some point, possibly in the very near future, I'm going to have to move these books, AND find a place for them in a new house where I don't have an annex to conveniently store my excesses.

 
So, what's the plan?  Well, I'm not going for a blanket ban - because like going on a strict diet, that's only going to wind up with me developing a craving for a particular book, then failing spectacularly and buying twenty at once.  So if something super-special comes along, I'm not going to wring my hands and wail, I'll just buy it.  The important thing will be making that decision and remembering that there are hundreds and hundreds of books just like it at home already that I just 'had' to buy.  Generally, abstinence will be my best choice, I reckon, because once I'm in a bookshop, or a charity shop, or a car boot sale, then my resolve is already down by about 50%.

As for the rest...
  • I'll finish my book jar, weeding out books as I go.  I think I've parted with just over three bags of books from the first bookcase, for example.
  • I read an interesting article somewhere (I can't find it now!) about letting go of books that suggested asking yourself this question: "If you saw it somewhere for free, would you take it?"  It sounds daft, but I'm imagining myself walking round a big BEA-type event with mountains of free books and the need to be choosy.  Would I pick up X book, or pass it by?  It's doing wonders for paring down my wishlists - next I'll try it on my shelves at home!
  • I'm taking most of my current batch of library books back and focussing on my own books.  There are one or two I definitely want to read while I have them, but the rest can wait for another time!
  • I'll be using my book jar to pick reads.  If I'm seriously disappointed when a particular book comes up, it can go.  If I start reading it and it's rubbish, it can go.  There are plenty more to read instead!
  • I'll be sweeping my already-read books again at least once more before we move, in case there are any more that can be weeded out and taken to the shop.
  • I'll be trying to stay away from temptation - bookshops, charity shops, book stalls, book sale emails... you get the idea.
  • I'm continuing my general clear-out of other things in my life as well - clothes, magazines, DVDs, random drawers of stuff.  Clearing out one thing feeds into another, and I feel much BETTER when things are cleaner and less cluttered. 

Yeah, it's a bit of a fuzzy plan, but I'm sure we'd all agree that sometimes you just need to make a good start to help clarify things, and more will then fall into place with each step forwards.  Hopefully I'll get great pleasure from reading some of the many hundreds of books I've amassed and ignored, I'll save a fair bit of money towards decorating my new space when we move, I'll not feel so weighed down by my TBR mountain, I won't cripple myself trying to move them all, and I won't have to make books the main consideration when I'm buying furniture!


Over to you - how do you know when it's time to clear out some books?  Do you have any rules or rituals that inspire you if your resolve starts to waver (for example, I tend to read articles about decluttering and book hoarding, and head for Pinterest to look at more kooky, pared-down book storage ideas)?  Are you good at keeping your bookish purchases in check?
 

13 comments:

  1. I think I just need a general clear out of STUFF. BUt I always get distracted and then it's Sunday evening and I have done NOTHING. I'm trying to work out my book jar rules. I might have astrict 50 pages and then it goes to the charity shop - not back on the TBR - if it's not blimmin wonderful.

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    1. I was thinking along similar lines... And YES to the clear out of stuff. It takes so long that despite my best intentions I never get very far, and suddenly I'm back at work again. I keep trying to plug away a little at a time, but if we have a few days off at some point I might have to take the opportunity and go into full-on blitz mode! Everything needs sorting before the move anyway - from DVDs to gloves to jeans to books to stationery to knicknacks to furniture - and it makes me feel so much better when I see another bag disappearing off to the charity shop!

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  2. Moving twice in a year was enough to convince me. I got rid of ALL my books - hundreds and hundreds collected over 30 years. It was painful indeed, but it sure made the last move (and another pending one) easier. Course, I just started a new job running a used bookstore and that has eased the pain considerably. (We won't talk about the fact that the back of my car is already filling up with irresitable deals and rescues from the reject bin.)

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    1. I won't be getting rid of ALL my books, not ever - but eventually I'd love to have them pared right down to my favourite must-keeps and a SMALL, ever-shifting TBR pile that I can add to in moderation. Hopefully I'll get there in the end, by reading what I've got and having periodic culls of books that just aren't for me any more!

      The bookshop has been a major sticking point for me, I must admit. It's just too easy to grab interesting sounding books from the shelves, or I'll see titles from my wishlist in bags of incoming stock and squirrel them away for later. Because it's our own shop we both occasionally leave the other one in charge and wander into town for a break, which for me is yet another opportunity to go book hunting! THIS MUST STOP. :)

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  3. I do a great job of thinning the shelves in the fall, so I can donate to the animals. More recently... I have given books to the library to shelve if new.. and to the retirement home if not as new but good to read. Still... I have been on an acquiring binge myownself lately. drat. But if I can keep to my catch and release program, I should come out okay in the end. IF.
    Wishing you luck... me too!

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    1. Good for you - it sounds like a very healthy system you've got going! I don't think most British libraries accept book donations (unlike yours - we don't have Friends of the Library or anything like that, and sales tend to just be ex-library stock), but of course there's our bookshop and plenty of charity shops around here as well to release a few of my madcap flock back into the wild! :)

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  4. I am baaaad at getting rid of books, but I've been surprisingly good at not buying them! Part of me wants to extend my ban for longer, but also... I just want to browse again! I have no other activities!

    All that being said, I do LOVE getting rid of stuff. I used to hate it, but now I'm just like 'I need the SPACE, dammit!' Although that space is usually just for storing more books in. So that's not good. ANYWAY! I am here to monitor you/be all scary and growly if you do bad things. Just, you know, know that.

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    1. I'm not too bad at clearing out books, though I suspect this is largely because there is such a high volume of them in my house that I have a sizeable buffer zone before it starts to hurt... :(

      I'm really looking forward to having a day off that doesn't involve cleaning for a viewing (or actually HOLDING a viewing), so I can get all my clothes or DVDs or junk drawers emptied out and start going through those as well. My dream room when we move will be quirky and airy and relaxing, not crammed full, with piles of DVDs and books everywhere because they've spilled over their usual storage spot!

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  5. I'm actually doing really well with this at the moment - not clearing out my own books exactly, although that's on the list. But somehow, when it clicked over from 2012 to 2013, I suddenly became good at reading my own books. There was no grand revelation, it's just kind of... happened.

    I'm on my fifth reread book now, the latest being Jane Eyre, which isn't really a quick read. Then I also read Jonathan Strange & Mr Norrell, which I knew would take forever. I'm doing better at reading what I want without paying that much attention to how much time it will take up or whether it will lower my TBR.

    That's why I don't think a Book Jar, would do me much good, although I'd probably have a great time making it! I like CHOOSING too much :)

    I think you're clever to not impose a blanket ban, just a rule to be a Sensible Ellie. Trusting to your discretion, not strict legislation. Makes sense!

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  6. I wish you so much luck and determination in this endeavor. I have already put myself on a ban about five times this year and failed miserably within a day each time. I'm pretty much giving the whole idea up now. I must do a book jar though, such a brill idea.

    But space is definitely becoming an issue. I used to be practically the main stockist for the local oxfam but I love all my books so much I can't bring myself to give them away now. That, and I keep buying books and realising I've already read it so it's handy to keep them around. I could always keep a list but that would just be too easy, right? Plus I get all emotional when I have to part with a book (I swear that's not normal).

    Anyway...GOOD LUCK.

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  7. I'm impressed by the weeding of books. I'm going to be moving in a couple of month and am reading like a demon to try and get ready for it. Also, yay for another person making a book jar. I never expected my post to kick off so many pretty jars. Very exciting to see what people are doing with the idea. :)

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  8. Good at keeping bookish purchases in check? Don't be ridiculous! Are any of us book lovers good at that? Moving house used to be a good opportunity, back when we rented and moved every 18 months or so. Now that we own a house and can't afford to move ever again I've realised I have to try a bit harder to keep the book hoarding in check. On the other hand there are multiple rooms that don't yet contain book shelves...

    Good luck with the abstinence/weeding out!

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  9. I'm terrible at reading my own books in a timely manner. But once I year (at least) I go through books I know I won't read again and take them for the library book sale. I think a few that I've gotten at the library book sale have ended up back at the book sale. Oops.

    I also give a book about 50 pages before I give up and into the donate pile it goes.

    It's hard getting rid of books. It kind of tears me apart a little inside. I don't envy you, dear.

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